....And your still my favorite!

Last Friday, marked Tim's and my 3rd anniversary. Like every past anniversary, we spent it apart. We have gotten real use to celebrating all our holidays after the holiday has past. This year however, was a bit frustrating. Every time we made plans to do something our plans got cancelled. Tim has been booked like crazy flying from NYC, Cali, to Orlando, back to Cali. It's just been crazy.

We had finally made plans to celebrate yesterday when he flew home that morning but once again the plan didn't go as we wanted. Tim came home sick and was burning up with a fever. I admire him for still wanting to take me out and wine and dine me but I just couldn't be that heartless, I knew he was miserable. He had been on a red eye all night with only 4hrs of sleep and he could barely keep conversation going he was so out of it. So, instead I tucked him in bed and went out to go pick up some dvd's and take out for us, along with the cute little cake (pictured above).

With some rest and food him he was starting to feel a little better so we put in the movie and enjoyed our night in doors with our pets curled up around us. After that I realized this is what love is really all about. It's not about buying fancy things and showing off what we do together its about making the best out of what we are dealt and learning to love each other through the hard times.

I will admit I was crushed our date plan was not going to work out again but I was determined to put my emotions aside and take care of him... I know without a doubt he would have done the same for me. We have had some real rocky times and our relationship is far from perfect but everyday, every challenge, every let down we go through we always come out stronger. I'm blessed to be a man who is patient with me, who allows me to cry all the time over the stupidest things, who sits down and communicates with me when we are having problems, who still loves me at my worst. I'm blessed to be in a real relationship were we know it's not easy and nothing about is perfect but that's what makes it more beautiful and special that we can still after all we have fought about, all we have disagreed about, we can come out in the end still wanting to spend our life's together. Love is a choice my friends and it takes hard work but in the end love is always worth it! Happy 3 years to my special friend, I love you dearly!